Finally!

How long has it been? How long has it been since i've thought about being in a for real coupledom? When was the last time I thought about participating in a relationship where I would have to be accountable for many hours in my day. Accountable for who all I socialized with, and where I spent the most hours. I have to answer many questions right now, as this new interest and I begin to see if we "fit." Isn't that what we're doing? Seeing if we can fit into this person's life? After all, wouldn't it be a shame if you didn't dig deeper into a potential mate's life to see if they are a night owl? when you are a morning glory?

what if this person doesn't eat meat? or fish? and only eats raw food? or snores?
we have to find out if this person fits into our lifestyle.

oh how i hate doing all this. why can't we just sit and talk and get it over with? don't we usually know if we click within minutes of meeting someone new? do we feel electricity? a charge? see something in the eyes? the voice? watch the body language? oh how i hate this part.